I’ve come across girls searching for someone like Hirthik Roshan. Really now, what kind of criteria is that? Your partner’s looks aren’t going to last forever! Wouldn’t you rather have a lover with whom you can share your dreams – someone who’ll always be there to catch you when you fall?. Don’t just go for their looks, but seek out the person inside. Also, don’t see them as credit cards you can cash to keep buying you things. Respect should be mutual. Always remember that no one is perfect, and that includes you. The thing is, no one has to be perfect. All you need is that you’re perfect for each other.
Now boys, what exactly are you looking for? You want a Sunny Leon for yourself and a Nirupa Roy (all docile and submissive) for your mother, huh? That’s a near impossible combination, trust me! Therefore, don’t be so unrealistic. Even the respective actors wouldn’t do each others’ role much justice onscreen. There is someone meant for you, someone who can complete you and support you through it all. Girls are also human beings just like you are, who have worked hard, have dreams they want to fulfill, and are very, very precious to their parents. Look beyond their looks. Beauty is only skin deep. Look, in the case of marriage, she who also has the loving comfort of her home just like you do, would have left it all behind to be with you. You have the responsibility of shielding her from unwarranted abuses. If you expect her to respect your family, you better treat her family the same. Remember that if your parents are getting up in the years, so are hers, and they need her support too. If she has stayed home to take care of you and your family, respect her, because home management is one of the most underrated yet a phenomenally important task. If she wanted, she could very well have left your side to live her dreams.
And now, the most important thing is that none of you give a piece of paper (a Janamkundali) the authority to select your life partner. Relationships are a seed you both plant together, which with the right amount of time, careandlove,will grow into a sturdy tree in the shade of which you can both live. No astrologer can dictate that. So, stay blessed friends, and please don’t stop with your requests in the matrimonial section either way. We all need a good laugh. 😉 :p